Why are so many attractive and college educated black women seeking, dating and marrying white men?
Monday, October 26th, 2009Is it partly because smart black women are no longer willing to be "played" by black men?
What is with you girls belittling black men as usual?
So what, is it not possible to be played by a white man?
These ‘attractive and college educated black women’ should be seeking love no matter what colour it comes in. Not just ‘white men’.
What a backwards, one-dimensional attitude.
:-p
Who cares? Let them get a taste of that sassy mouth and crazy attitude for a while. I gots me a white woman, and she is fantastic!!!!
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money, yeah yeah thumbs down but it’s the truth with all women
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why not? white men are the finest on earth! great sex! im sorry to say but black men are just not in style anymore.
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i think they are more willing to be open minded about dating anyone and dont feel that they should have to stick to their own race. being that they are college educated, they have had more interaction with other races as opposed to someone who dropped out of highschool and never left their community (which in a lot of poor areas tend to be most the same race, be it white, black, hispanic, asian…..)
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maybe they are just attracted to that man for his personality, similar interest, etc…. have you ever thought that it doesn’t have anything to do with being black or white, but finding what makes you happy?
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Cuz they are scared of dating Asian men?
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If it’s one thing that I’ve learned in college it is that you will find the most unusual couples ever……I have seen some of the goofiest dudes (mostly white) that were with the sexiest black and Hispanic women ever, women that are way out of their league
I dunno what it is, but I’m not complaining
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why do questions like this always make it seem as if black women are chasing white men down?…. still though most of the educated black women that I know want to meet and fall in love with an educated black man, black women really are not checking for white men like that
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Probably because they are attracted to them or maybe because the black men are no good, Baby mama drama, dating non black women, on the down low, no job, in jail, etc. I dont think they are SEEKING them.
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and i agree black women are not checking wm like that.
Man I don’t see why people seperate men in to catergories…their ALL MEN!! They are all capable of "playing" women so get over it people! The same way women are capable..
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A white man is a like a god to black women.Black woman are very submissive to white men.I had many black women in my bed and they love having sex with white men.I was told by a black woman just thinking about having sex with a white man made her wet between her legs mmmm
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Most people stick with their own race.
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How often do you see black American men at racially diverse colleges? At my college its not to common, but I do see a whole lot of black American women. If they meet white guys (majority race of men) who are at their educational and income level, and they are attracted to and like eachother and possibly end up falling in love, why shouldnt they date and marry? lol
There is an interesting increase in this kind of interracial coupling because black American women are not ‘sticking to only black men’ anymore. They realize that they dont have to settle for less when choosing a mate, and that they can find those same qualities they seek in a mate without looking too hard… in men of other ethnicities/races.
BW/WM couples ROCK!!
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Black Babe with white dude
Maybe cuz more black women are opended now to dating other races
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Your answer is in your question! Black women who are college graduates (or undergraduates) only want men who have the same status! I don’t want a man who don’t have a decent job (to support himself) and a higher education. I don’t want a man who will lay on the couch all day, smoking weed and watching BET. I don’t want a man who has no goals in life, have 5 or 6 children by different women, who is in and out of jail, and possibly gay (downlow). I want a man that can compete in the job market and provide for himself. I’m would never let a black man live with me, and I work, pay bills, buy food, and pay their bills, etc. While dealing with their baby-mama drama and girls on the side. Hell to the NO!! A relationship is 50/50. And a black man can’t bring in 10% of their part! So F**k ‘em!!! I always had a thing for white boys since 1st grade when I had a crush on the cute kid that sat acrossed from me! And it never stopped. And I never stop seeking and dating white men!!
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ohh and there are "some" black woman who have college degrees and are with black men who also have degrees! (like my parents) so It’s all about status!
What is with you girls belittling black men as usual?
So what, is it not possible to be played by a white man?
These ‘attractive and college educated black women’ should be seeking love no matter what colour it comes in. Not just ‘white men’.
What a backwards, one-dimensional attitude.
:-p
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white men treat their women better,
higher life standards, and they find a lot in common I guess.
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They are doing what Black men have done for a long time – play the field.
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"The White Man’s Guide To Dating Black Women" (ISBN 1435702891)
"The Interracial Dating Book for Black Women"( ISBN 1581128002)